Where is all this “anti-het” I keep hearing about? I’ve seen a lot of fans who prefer yaoi or yuri to het, but I have yet to see someone who’s actually anti-het. There’s a difference between not being into something at all and hating it.
The only thing close to “anti-het” is when people roll their eyes at pairings like Demand/Usagi and Touga/Utena, because in those pairings, the men are total assholes not only to the women, but to women in general.
Seriously, I really doubt this is actually a big thing in fandom. You can totally hate the majority of het pairings, but that’s not the same as being anti-het. Christ.